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What Nigerian Girls Really Want.. By Smart P

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Hello gentlemen and ladies!

Women in the workplace are kinda funny. My male subordinates are very respectful and quiet but the female ones are too chummy and when you have to reprimand them they get emotional. Right now there is this one that is squeezing her face cauz I was a bit harsh on her yesterday. So me too I’m squeezing my face at her for today, but I’ll make sure I play with her tomorrow. *sigh* so tedious. Lol. 

Anyway I’m taking a break off work to share some observations with you. Over and over, I have heard people, particularly guys, say, all Nigerian girls want is money but in my experience and from observation, this is not quite true. The more accurate assertion is, some Nigerian girls from a certain background prioritize money, and to be fair that is not inherently a bad thing: everyone is entitled to want what they want, and you don’t need to resent them just because you don’t have what they want.

The key is, find the person who fits your philosophy and status in life, and I’m going to help you do that by pointing out to you how you might identify what different classes of girls are more interested in.

NB: I am going to be making some generalizations here so you may probably know one or two girls who do not fit the mold: that doesn’t mean my general observations are untrue.

To start with, traditionally, all of society can be divided into two broad categories further broken down into 6 narrow classes:

The have-nots

1. Lower-lower class: the poorest of the poor living in extreme deprivation

Lower-lower class girls are usually very materialistic in their selection because they see a man as a hero coming to sweep them out of a life of misery. If you are not prepared to spend, avoid these ones. However, if you are prepared to spend you will find that she will genuinely love you and work hard to keep your home. As a broke guy, this type of girl may easily fall for your personality, but have it at the back of your mind that she may easily cheat on you for money.

What she really wants: A happy, comfortable life

2. Upper-lower class: not deprived of life’s basics but not enjoying any special comforts

Girls in this class have grown up watching their parents struggle to provide things for them. They are also materialistic but they also tend to appreciate the value of hard work, as often they’ve often had to join their parents to work at the shop, farm, etc. These girls are the ones who study very hard at school, and are career oriented. You can expect a girl in this class to work hard to take care of her own needs, but she also won’t settle for a man who is not more well-off than she is.

What she really wants: material comfort 

3. Lower-middle class: getting by with some comfort but no luxury

This class of girl is just there. She is not particularly motivated by money since she may have often spent a lot more time around people in the lower class, and may be used to them looking up to her. She belongs to the highest class of the have-nots, and does not have that sense of deprivation. These are girls who easily fall for dreamers, and will happily tell you “money isn’t everything”.

What she really wants: a happy family

The haves

4. Upper-middle class: comfortable with a few luxuries

Upper middle class girls, unlike lower middle class girls, tend to spend a lot of time around richer friends and tend to feel deprived even though they actually live comfortably. They resent not being able to join in the conversation when their friends are talking about all the different places they visited, and may secretly resent their father’s for not being richer. These girls, surprisingly are the most materialistic of all, and when guys complain that girls are only interested in money, it is usually because they are chasing upper middle class ladies.

What she really wants: to undo the trauma of deprivation

5. Lower-upper class: luxurious life with some limitations

These girls are rich and they aren’t looking for a man to give them money, however it may appear that they are materialistic on the surface. This is because a lot of girls in this class tend to be bitchy and competitive, they want a man to show off, and are easily attracted to status symbols. To be with a girl like this, you must be either the cutest, richest, most popular, most notorious… etc. some of these girls actually pay for dates and shopping outings with their boyfriends, but pretend to others like “bae” paid for it all. 

What she really wants: Status

6. Upper-upper class: absolute luxury
These girls tend to live in a fantasy world, and they really believe in true love, however they only date superstars and fellow members of the elite. They are not materialistic but they hardly date broke guys simply because they hardly mingle with “commoners”, and mommy probably would have a fit if she brings a broke guy home.

What she really wants: Romance and fantasy

NB: people move between classes so don’t evaluate a girl by the class she is in today, evaluate her by the class her family was in during her formative years. The attitude she picked up then will likely stay with her for life.

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Amaechi Vows To Release Names Of Those Sabotaging Security

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Minister of Transportation, Rotimi Amaechi has said that cabals are frustrating the recently approved $198m maritime security contract.

Amaechi vowed to publicly mention names of saboteurs while speaking at a Maritime Stakeholders’ Interactive Forum held in Warri, Delta State on Thursday.

He said “Reason, why vessels will not come to the Eastern ports, is because there is war insurance due to insecurity in the ports here.

“The war insurance means if the goods cost N10,000 in Lagos, it will cost N20,000 here because there is an extra cost on it due to Insecurity issues. Even as a minister, I can’t enter a boat ride from Warri to Port Harcourt due to insecurity issues, but I can move around Lagos at any time of the day.

“I once asked a former Governor of Anambra State, Peter Obi, why people from Anambra don’t import from Port Harcourt port, and he said it cost less to import from Lagos and move to Onitsha even with the price they pay on the road. It is cheaper to import from Lagos to Aba, yet Aba to Port Harcourt is a 30-minute drive.

“For shipowners, you need to do a petition to Mr President. The President approved a contract of $195m for maritime security, but there are people in the system sabotaging the contract because it will restore security in the water. I won’t say who they are until it gets out of control. We are still battling for the contract to take place, but if it gets out of place, we will name them publicly, including the security people involved.

“There are people who make billions of Dollars from the insecurity on the water, so they don’t want security on the water because if we secure the water, all their rubbish will go.

“There are businesses which provide the vessel for oil companies in the name of providing security. The moment we secure the water, they are out of jobs?

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Prison Officer Brutalizes Son, Injures Him For Playing Football (Graphic)

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According to a photographer who shared photos of a teenage boy brutalized by his father, almost went into coma after he sustained a deep injury on his head, just for playing football.

The Nigerian Prisons staff beats his son from 7:00pm till 2:30 am, says report.

See what the photographer/Instagram user wrote..

This happened at Oluwatedo area of Ibadan, Mr Adepoju Biodun is married with three kids,he works with Nigerian prison service Agodi,ibadan.his eldest child is Israel, On 16th February 2018 Israel went to play football and after the football his father beat him from 7:00pm till 2:30am in the early hours of Saturday till he sustained a deep cut on his head with blood everywhere in the house.his the appropriate way to correct or chastise our child. This is beyond chastisement. Israel was beaten to coma before he was later rushed to Don Bosco specialist hospital Ogungbade. I will soon upload the surface area of the deep cut as soon as they open it.his siblings also tolu and praise served severe punishment, they were relieved as soon as Israel was rushed to the hospital. Please share until the appropriate authorities sees this especially Nigerian prisons, UNICEF. #UNICEF #law #crazyfather #ibadan #opayemioludayo
#tolanialli #bayoomoboriowo #michaelomoboriowophotography #ajimobi #florenceajimobi #lawyer #nigerianprison #nigerianprison #freshfm #splashfm #inspirationfm

Beating for your son for playing football? My God.

Someone please remind him how much Neymar is worth per week!!! Kaii

There is another angle to look at this… No father in his right mind would do this to his own son!!! This is a clear case MENTAL ILLNESS/TRUMA probably due to the nature of his work. I am not a psychologist but I know in that in Nigeria  we lack the culture of looking out for the signs of mental fatigue amongst our workers in all sector. Military /Paramilitary have no proper way of been evaluated for any form of work trauma. This man could be having or experiencing trauma as the result of the nature of his job. May God help him and his family.

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UYO STATE LAWMAKER RESCUES PUPILS AGAIN …DONATES DESKS TO SCHOOL

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The member representing Uyo State Constituency in the Akwa Ibom State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Monday Eyo Okon, on Friday, donated 120 desks to the pupils of Government Primary School, Aka Offot, Uyo Local Government Area.

Hon. Monday Eyo who described Education as a bedrock of any society, and for any society to make progress, stated that when the foundation that is the primary level of education is well laid, motivated and properly activated, the child who is at the centre of learning is well prepared, informed and sharpened for the future both mentally and physically.

Headmaster of the School, Mr. Simon Edet Eyo, alongside the Village Head of Aka 1, Eteidung Francis, Hon. Kufre Mendi, while receiving the Lawmaker, commended him for his kind gesture and rapid response to the plight of the pupils within the short notice of time.

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PDP RESPONSIBLE FOR FUEL HIKE- Don Etiebet …BLAMES OBJ,JONATHAN FOR OIL SPILLS IN NIGER DELTA

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Former Petroleum Minister Chief Don Etiebet says the current fuel crisis in Nigeria is caused by the opposition Peoples Democratic Party.

Speaking in an interview in Uyo, Chief Etiebet the APC leader in Akwa Ibom explained that the petroleum distribution in Nigeria is controlled by PDP members who are causing the fuel hike to project President Muhammadu Buhari as a failure.

Buhari is the substantive Ministet of Petroleum in Nigeria.

“Who are still controlling the petroleum distribution in Nigeria; it is still the original PDP marketers.”

He attributed the fuel hike to the impending elections in the country, saying it is an attempt by the PDP marketers to discredit APC.

 “Election time is coming and they are doing all kinds of thing for petrol not to be available, and what do they want? They want increase I petrol price so that they can use that against APC”

Etiebet, who was minister of petroleum under Gen. Sani Abacha attributed all oil spill in the South-South Zone to illegal bunkering.

He said illegal bunkering in Nigeria where sponsored by the previous Government OF Chief Olusegu Obasanjo and Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

“Many Government in the past even up to the last Government have been supporting illegal bunkering; please quote me, I am the former minister for petroleum and I know the details”

On the proposed reintroduction of onshore/offshore oil dichotomy by the APC restructuring Committee, Dr. Etiebet said there was nothing wrong with the committee report.

“ I believe what the committee meant maybe oil discovered or produced outside that isoba boundary.”

He assured that president buhari has done well for Akwa Ibom with the development programme been seen in all part  Akwa Ibom state and urged Akwa Ibom people to rally round him for the re-election of President Buhari in 2019

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The NANS JCC Chairman Comrade. Ekanem Utibe seeks for partnership with wema bank

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****Pleads with Bank to erect an Atm machine at heritage polytechnic and other tertiary institution in state
Akwa Ibom State NANS JCC Chairman Comrade Ekanem Utibe, accompanied by the Secretary General Comr. Akanimo Ifiokonon, Director of sports Comr. Akan Udom, P. R. O Comr.  Kokoette Udom and Enoima Monday Udosoh Monday, were today received by the Dir of Special Duty of WEMA BANK Mr Victor Akpan at Eket LGA branch who directed to the office of the branch service manager.
The chairman appealed to the bank management to assist the students community by erecting an Atm Machine at the campus for the benefit of Nigerian students and the bank. 
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