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The Girl I Almost Defiled

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* A Personal Story of a Christian Brother *

It was not funny that night. I remember my phone rang and it was no other person but my little girlfriend. “Why have you not called me?” She asked. “Thought you promised to invite me to your school one of these days?” She had waited for so long for my call, but I delibrately refused to invite her to my school. Unknown to her that I was not ready to do what she wanted me to do when she comes. “I know I promised to invite you some day,” I replied, “but you see, you are still a young girl and I wouldn’t want to be responsible for your defilement. Please let us leave sex out of this my dear, let’s just continue to be friends.”
This was a secondary school girl I met while I was an undergraduate at the university. She mistakenly dialed my number and ever since that day, we began having series of romantic talk via the phone even before I travelled to see her physically. After we met, there was more pressure on her side to also come to know where I live, and possibly spend some quality time with me, afterall my parents were not living on campus with me. And to garnish her visit, she promised to offer me her body when she comes around.

So when she heard my disapproval, she became angry. “Who told you I’m too young?” She snapped at me. “And what makes you think I can’t do what other girls are doing? I’m I not your girlfriend? Or are you not man enough to handle me?” Her small but mighty words pierced my heart like a needle, that I went dumb for some seconds. I never believed that a girl of her age could ever challenge my manhood. “Hello, are you still there?” She called for my respond. I cleared my throat, then I managed to reply her. “C’mon baby, I am not saying I am not man enough,” I covered up, “but you see, I am a Christian, and I would not want to commit this kind of sin against God.”
She felt dissappointed when she heard me. Her heart was already prepared to get defiled, but my heart was not. But why should a young school girl want to be deflowered? What kind of pressure was mounted on her that she was ready to offer her body to me at all cost? Even if her friends nicknamed her virgin Mary, would she for that reason throw away the gold God gave her and pick up stones in replacement? I could not be a partner in that business, even when the urge was also strong on me to invite her, I could not. And I know it was God’s grace that held me back. He was preserving my future, because even up till this point of writing, I still can not tell what made me not to invite her, after all, I wasn’t truly a Christian then.

After some days, I became restless, I felt I was hurting her little feelings for me. And since I could not give her what she wanted, I decided to end the whole nonsense. I picked up my phone, sent her a text telling her not to call me again, that she should go her way. It was not easy for her, she called back, pleaded and cried bitterly, but I gave her no reply until she dropped the call.

Few months ago, I was on a bike when I saw her hanging out with a man, she’s grown up now, but deep into this world. Hmm, If not for God’s mercy towards my life, no doubt, I would have gone that way too. She would have been my first gate into this world of premarital sex, and heaven would have had it recorded that I was the one who led her astray. 
Why I’m I sharing this?

I noticed that many young people have been exposed to too many erotic and romantic things such that they want to have a personal experience of what they have seen, watched or read. Many young people are so curious about this thing called ‘sex.’ 
They are so eager to practice it, and for so many who have not got the opportunity, they will rather claim they have done it, just to appear man enough before friends.

Oh’ I weep when I see many young girls roam about the street half Unclad, seeking for guys who will get them deflowered. And it also pains me that many guys will not spare these naive girls when they meet them. Even some men in their seventies are ready to defile a girl of twelve if they gain the opportunity. Hmm! What a wicked world. But what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and lose his soul? (Mark 8:36).

Are you in this mess friend? Are you throwing away the gold God gave to you just to pick up stones? I wish your eyes would be opened to see that precious treasure that lies within you. No matter how curious you are, no matter the number of ‘I LOVE YOU’ he says to you, don’t open that leg. Let it be closed till marriage, for there reward in waiting. 

Even if you have done that before, you can still regain this treasure if you surrender your life to JESUS. Just ask Him to forgive you your sins and turn away from those evil and immoral things you do. May God help you come to this point in Jesus name. Amen.
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Amaechi Vows To Release Names Of Those Sabotaging Security

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Minister of Transportation, Rotimi Amaechi has said that cabals are frustrating the recently approved $198m maritime security contract.

Amaechi vowed to publicly mention names of saboteurs while speaking at a Maritime Stakeholders’ Interactive Forum held in Warri, Delta State on Thursday.

He said “Reason, why vessels will not come to the Eastern ports, is because there is war insurance due to insecurity in the ports here.

“The war insurance means if the goods cost N10,000 in Lagos, it will cost N20,000 here because there is an extra cost on it due to Insecurity issues. Even as a minister, I can’t enter a boat ride from Warri to Port Harcourt due to insecurity issues, but I can move around Lagos at any time of the day.

“I once asked a former Governor of Anambra State, Peter Obi, why people from Anambra don’t import from Port Harcourt port, and he said it cost less to import from Lagos and move to Onitsha even with the price they pay on the road. It is cheaper to import from Lagos to Aba, yet Aba to Port Harcourt is a 30-minute drive.

“For shipowners, you need to do a petition to Mr President. The President approved a contract of $195m for maritime security, but there are people in the system sabotaging the contract because it will restore security in the water. I won’t say who they are until it gets out of control. We are still battling for the contract to take place, but if it gets out of place, we will name them publicly, including the security people involved.

“There are people who make billions of Dollars from the insecurity on the water, so they don’t want security on the water because if we secure the water, all their rubbish will go.

“There are businesses which provide the vessel for oil companies in the name of providing security. The moment we secure the water, they are out of jobs?

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Prison Officer Brutalizes Son, Injures Him For Playing Football (Graphic)

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According to a photographer who shared photos of a teenage boy brutalized by his father, almost went into coma after he sustained a deep injury on his head, just for playing football.

The Nigerian Prisons staff beats his son from 7:00pm till 2:30 am, says report.

See what the photographer/Instagram user wrote..

This happened at Oluwatedo area of Ibadan, Mr Adepoju Biodun is married with three kids,he works with Nigerian prison service Agodi,ibadan.his eldest child is Israel, On 16th February 2018 Israel went to play football and after the football his father beat him from 7:00pm till 2:30am in the early hours of Saturday till he sustained a deep cut on his head with blood everywhere in the house.his the appropriate way to correct or chastise our child. This is beyond chastisement. Israel was beaten to coma before he was later rushed to Don Bosco specialist hospital Ogungbade. I will soon upload the surface area of the deep cut as soon as they open it.his siblings also tolu and praise served severe punishment, they were relieved as soon as Israel was rushed to the hospital. Please share until the appropriate authorities sees this especially Nigerian prisons, UNICEF. #UNICEF #law #crazyfather #ibadan #opayemioludayo
#tolanialli #bayoomoboriowo #michaelomoboriowophotography #ajimobi #florenceajimobi #lawyer #nigerianprison #nigerianprison #freshfm #splashfm #inspirationfm

Beating for your son for playing football? My God.

Someone please remind him how much Neymar is worth per week!!! Kaii

There is another angle to look at this… No father in his right mind would do this to his own son!!! This is a clear case MENTAL ILLNESS/TRUMA probably due to the nature of his work. I am not a psychologist but I know in that in Nigeria  we lack the culture of looking out for the signs of mental fatigue amongst our workers in all sector. Military /Paramilitary have no proper way of been evaluated for any form of work trauma. This man could be having or experiencing trauma as the result of the nature of his job. May God help him and his family.

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UYO STATE LAWMAKER RESCUES PUPILS AGAIN …DONATES DESKS TO SCHOOL

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The member representing Uyo State Constituency in the Akwa Ibom State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Monday Eyo Okon, on Friday, donated 120 desks to the pupils of Government Primary School, Aka Offot, Uyo Local Government Area.

Hon. Monday Eyo who described Education as a bedrock of any society, and for any society to make progress, stated that when the foundation that is the primary level of education is well laid, motivated and properly activated, the child who is at the centre of learning is well prepared, informed and sharpened for the future both mentally and physically.

Headmaster of the School, Mr. Simon Edet Eyo, alongside the Village Head of Aka 1, Eteidung Francis, Hon. Kufre Mendi, while receiving the Lawmaker, commended him for his kind gesture and rapid response to the plight of the pupils within the short notice of time.

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PDP RESPONSIBLE FOR FUEL HIKE- Don Etiebet …BLAMES OBJ,JONATHAN FOR OIL SPILLS IN NIGER DELTA

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Former Petroleum Minister Chief Don Etiebet says the current fuel crisis in Nigeria is caused by the opposition Peoples Democratic Party.

Speaking in an interview in Uyo, Chief Etiebet the APC leader in Akwa Ibom explained that the petroleum distribution in Nigeria is controlled by PDP members who are causing the fuel hike to project President Muhammadu Buhari as a failure.

Buhari is the substantive Ministet of Petroleum in Nigeria.

“Who are still controlling the petroleum distribution in Nigeria; it is still the original PDP marketers.”

He attributed the fuel hike to the impending elections in the country, saying it is an attempt by the PDP marketers to discredit APC.

 “Election time is coming and they are doing all kinds of thing for petrol not to be available, and what do they want? They want increase I petrol price so that they can use that against APC”

Etiebet, who was minister of petroleum under Gen. Sani Abacha attributed all oil spill in the South-South Zone to illegal bunkering.

He said illegal bunkering in Nigeria where sponsored by the previous Government OF Chief Olusegu Obasanjo and Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

“Many Government in the past even up to the last Government have been supporting illegal bunkering; please quote me, I am the former minister for petroleum and I know the details”

On the proposed reintroduction of onshore/offshore oil dichotomy by the APC restructuring Committee, Dr. Etiebet said there was nothing wrong with the committee report.

“ I believe what the committee meant maybe oil discovered or produced outside that isoba boundary.”

He assured that president buhari has done well for Akwa Ibom with the development programme been seen in all part  Akwa Ibom state and urged Akwa Ibom people to rally round him for the re-election of President Buhari in 2019

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The NANS JCC Chairman Comrade. Ekanem Utibe seeks for partnership with wema bank

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****Pleads with Bank to erect an Atm machine at heritage polytechnic and other tertiary institution in state
Akwa Ibom State NANS JCC Chairman Comrade Ekanem Utibe, accompanied by the Secretary General Comr. Akanimo Ifiokonon, Director of sports Comr. Akan Udom, P. R. O Comr.  Kokoette Udom and Enoima Monday Udosoh Monday, were today received by the Dir of Special Duty of WEMA BANK Mr Victor Akpan at Eket LGA branch who directed to the office of the branch service manager.
The chairman appealed to the bank management to assist the students community by erecting an Atm Machine at the campus for the benefit of Nigerian students and the bank. 
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The Girl I Almost Defiled

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* A Personal Story of a Christian Brother *

It was not funny that night. I remember my phone rang and it was no other person but my little girlfriend. “Why have you not called me?” She asked. “Thought you promised to invite me to your school one of these days?” She had waited for so long for my call, but I delibrately refused to invite her to my school. Unknown to her that I was not ready to do what she wanted me to do when she comes. “I know I promised to invite you some day,” I replied, “but you see, you are still a young girl and I wouldn’t want to be responsible for your defilement. Please let us leave sex out of this my dear, let’s just continue to be friends.”
This was a secondary school girl I met while I was an undergraduate at the university. She mistakenly dialed my number and ever since that day, we began having series of romantic talk via the phone even before I travelled to see her physically. After we met, there was more pressure on her side to also come to know where I live, and possibly spend some quality time with me, afterall my parents were not living on campus with me. And to garnish her visit, she promised to offer me her body when she comes around.

So when she heard my disapproval, she became angry. “Who told you I’m too young?” She snapped at me. “And what makes you think I can’t do what other girls are doing? I’m I not your girlfriend? Or are you not man enough to handle me?” Her small but mighty words pierced my heart like a needle, that I went dumb for some seconds. I never believed that a girl of her age could ever challenge my manhood. “Hello, are you still there?” She called for my respond. I cleared my throat, then I managed to reply her. “C’mon baby, I am not saying I am not man enough,” I covered up, “but you see, I am a Christian, and I would not want to commit this kind of sin against God.”
She felt dissappointed when she heard me. Her heart was already prepared to get defiled, but my heart was not. But why should a young school girl want to be deflowered? What kind of pressure was mounted on her that she was ready to offer her body to me at all cost? Even if her friends nicknamed her virgin Mary, would she for that reason throw away the gold God gave her and pick up stones in replacement? I could not be a partner in that business, even when the urge was also strong on me to invite her, I could not. And I know it was God’s grace that held me back. He was preserving my future, because even up till this point of writing, I still can not tell what made me not to invite her, after all, I wasn’t truly a Christian then.

After some days, I became restless, I felt I was hurting her little feelings for me. And since I could not give her what she wanted, I decided to end the whole nonsense. I picked up my phone, sent her a text telling her not to call me again, that she should go her way. It was not easy for her, she called back, pleaded and cried bitterly, but I gave her no reply until she dropped the call.

Few months ago, I was on a bike when I saw her hanging out with a man, she’s grown up now, but deep into this world. Hmm, If not for God’s mercy towards my life, no doubt, I would have gone that way too. She would have been my first gate into this world of premarital sex, and heaven would have had it recorded that I was the one who led her astray. 
Why I’m I sharing this?

I noticed that many young people have been exposed to too many erotic and romantic things such that they want to have a personal experience of what they have seen, watched or read. Many young people are so curious about this thing called ‘sex.’ 
They are so eager to practice it, and for so many who have not got the opportunity, they will rather claim they have done it, just to appear man enough before friends.

Oh’ I weep when I see many young girls roam about the street half Unclad, seeking for guys who will get them deflowered. And it also pains me that many guys will not spare these naive girls when they meet them. Even some men in their seventies are ready to defile a girl of twelve if they gain the opportunity. Hmm! What a wicked world. But what shall it profit a man if he gains the whole world and lose his soul? (Mark 8:36).

Are you in this mess friend? Are you throwing away the gold God gave to you just to pick up stones? I wish your eyes would be opened to see that precious treasure that lies within you. No matter how curious you are, no matter the number of ‘I LOVE YOU’ he says to you, don’t open that leg. Let it be closed till marriage, for there reward in waiting. 

Even if you have done that before, you can still regain this treasure if you surrender your life to JESUS. Just ask Him to forgive you your sins and turn away from those evil and immoral things you do. May God help you come to this point in Jesus name. Amen.
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Amaechi Vows To Release Names Of Those Sabotaging Security

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Minister of Transportation, Rotimi Amaechi has said that cabals are frustrating the recently approved $198m maritime security contract.

Amaechi vowed to publicly mention names of saboteurs while speaking at a Maritime Stakeholders’ Interactive Forum held in Warri, Delta State on Thursday.

He said “Reason, why vessels will not come to the Eastern ports, is because there is war insurance due to insecurity in the ports here.

“The war insurance means if the goods cost N10,000 in Lagos, it will cost N20,000 here because there is an extra cost on it due to Insecurity issues. Even as a minister, I can’t enter a boat ride from Warri to Port Harcourt due to insecurity issues, but I can move around Lagos at any time of the day.

“I once asked a former Governor of Anambra State, Peter Obi, why people from Anambra don’t import from Port Harcourt port, and he said it cost less to import from Lagos and move to Onitsha even with the price they pay on the road. It is cheaper to import from Lagos to Aba, yet Aba to Port Harcourt is a 30-minute drive.

“For shipowners, you need to do a petition to Mr President. The President approved a contract of $195m for maritime security, but there are people in the system sabotaging the contract because it will restore security in the water. I won’t say who they are until it gets out of control. We are still battling for the contract to take place, but if it gets out of place, we will name them publicly, including the security people involved.

“There are people who make billions of Dollars from the insecurity on the water, so they don’t want security on the water because if we secure the water, all their rubbish will go.

“There are businesses which provide the vessel for oil companies in the name of providing security. The moment we secure the water, they are out of jobs?

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Prison Officer Brutalizes Son, Injures Him For Playing Football (Graphic)

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According to a photographer who shared photos of a teenage boy brutalized by his father, almost went into coma after he sustained a deep injury on his head, just for playing football.

The Nigerian Prisons staff beats his son from 7:00pm till 2:30 am, says report.

See what the photographer/Instagram user wrote..

This happened at Oluwatedo area of Ibadan, Mr Adepoju Biodun is married with three kids,he works with Nigerian prison service Agodi,ibadan.his eldest child is Israel, On 16th February 2018 Israel went to play football and after the football his father beat him from 7:00pm till 2:30am in the early hours of Saturday till he sustained a deep cut on his head with blood everywhere in the house.his the appropriate way to correct or chastise our child. This is beyond chastisement. Israel was beaten to coma before he was later rushed to Don Bosco specialist hospital Ogungbade. I will soon upload the surface area of the deep cut as soon as they open it.his siblings also tolu and praise served severe punishment, they were relieved as soon as Israel was rushed to the hospital. Please share until the appropriate authorities sees this especially Nigerian prisons, UNICEF. #UNICEF #law #crazyfather #ibadan #opayemioludayo
#tolanialli #bayoomoboriowo #michaelomoboriowophotography #ajimobi #florenceajimobi #lawyer #nigerianprison #nigerianprison #freshfm #splashfm #inspirationfm

Beating for your son for playing football? My God.

Someone please remind him how much Neymar is worth per week!!! Kaii

There is another angle to look at this… No father in his right mind would do this to his own son!!! This is a clear case MENTAL ILLNESS/TRUMA probably due to the nature of his work. I am not a psychologist but I know in that in Nigeria  we lack the culture of looking out for the signs of mental fatigue amongst our workers in all sector. Military /Paramilitary have no proper way of been evaluated for any form of work trauma. This man could be having or experiencing trauma as the result of the nature of his job. May God help him and his family.

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UYO STATE LAWMAKER RESCUES PUPILS AGAIN …DONATES DESKS TO SCHOOL

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The member representing Uyo State Constituency in the Akwa Ibom State House of Assembly, Rt. Hon. Monday Eyo Okon, on Friday, donated 120 desks to the pupils of Government Primary School, Aka Offot, Uyo Local Government Area.

Hon. Monday Eyo who described Education as a bedrock of any society, and for any society to make progress, stated that when the foundation that is the primary level of education is well laid, motivated and properly activated, the child who is at the centre of learning is well prepared, informed and sharpened for the future both mentally and physically.

Headmaster of the School, Mr. Simon Edet Eyo, alongside the Village Head of Aka 1, Eteidung Francis, Hon. Kufre Mendi, while receiving the Lawmaker, commended him for his kind gesture and rapid response to the plight of the pupils within the short notice of time.

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PDP RESPONSIBLE FOR FUEL HIKE- Don Etiebet …BLAMES OBJ,JONATHAN FOR OIL SPILLS IN NIGER DELTA

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Former Petroleum Minister Chief Don Etiebet says the current fuel crisis in Nigeria is caused by the opposition Peoples Democratic Party.

Speaking in an interview in Uyo, Chief Etiebet the APC leader in Akwa Ibom explained that the petroleum distribution in Nigeria is controlled by PDP members who are causing the fuel hike to project President Muhammadu Buhari as a failure.

Buhari is the substantive Ministet of Petroleum in Nigeria.

“Who are still controlling the petroleum distribution in Nigeria; it is still the original PDP marketers.”

He attributed the fuel hike to the impending elections in the country, saying it is an attempt by the PDP marketers to discredit APC.

 “Election time is coming and they are doing all kinds of thing for petrol not to be available, and what do they want? They want increase I petrol price so that they can use that against APC”

Etiebet, who was minister of petroleum under Gen. Sani Abacha attributed all oil spill in the South-South Zone to illegal bunkering.

He said illegal bunkering in Nigeria where sponsored by the previous Government OF Chief Olusegu Obasanjo and Dr. Goodluck Ebele Jonathan.

“Many Government in the past even up to the last Government have been supporting illegal bunkering; please quote me, I am the former minister for petroleum and I know the details”

On the proposed reintroduction of onshore/offshore oil dichotomy by the APC restructuring Committee, Dr. Etiebet said there was nothing wrong with the committee report.

“ I believe what the committee meant maybe oil discovered or produced outside that isoba boundary.”

He assured that president buhari has done well for Akwa Ibom with the development programme been seen in all part  Akwa Ibom state and urged Akwa Ibom people to rally round him for the re-election of President Buhari in 2019

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The NANS JCC Chairman Comrade. Ekanem Utibe seeks for partnership with wema bank

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****Pleads with Bank to erect an Atm machine at heritage polytechnic and other tertiary institution in state
Akwa Ibom State NANS JCC Chairman Comrade Ekanem Utibe, accompanied by the Secretary General Comr. Akanimo Ifiokonon, Director of sports Comr. Akan Udom, P. R. O Comr.  Kokoette Udom and Enoima Monday Udosoh Monday, were today received by the Dir of Special Duty of WEMA BANK Mr Victor Akpan at Eket LGA branch who directed to the office of the branch service manager.
The chairman appealed to the bank management to assist the students community by erecting an Atm Machine at the campus for the benefit of Nigerian students and the bank. 
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